Yes, there are stupid questions

Great article in the NYTimes, about a young man who asks what he did to get cancer. When I was first diagnosed, I blamed myself for not getting a colonoscopy sooner (GO GET ONE NOW!). And then I'd see a toddler with a chemo port and wondered if that child blamed herself. In the end, "Why me?" or "What did I do?" are stupid questions for which there may not be answers. As the fellow in this article realizes, don't ask why, move on to the next phase of your life - living.